Starting a eulogy can be overwhelming.

Below is a Quick Guide to help you write the eulogy introduction. We hope it helps!

1. TONE & STYLE

To start a eulogy, first decide on the tone and style you will use for the funeral speech.

For example, if you are planning for a traditional eulogy, you'll want a more serious tone and straightforward style. Try to keep the style the same throughout the eulogy. While it's okay to throw in some humor in a more serious toned eulogy, you will want to avoid changing the style dramatically, as that might be disorienting to the audience and they miss out on all of the wonderful things you want to share about the deceased.

2. TELL ABOUT YOUR CONNECTION

Let the audience know how you and the deceased knew each other.

You will know the audience best, so if you know every person there, then maybe you don't need a drawn out introduction to start the eulogy. Remember, the goal is to share about the relationship and the deceased... not about you. Be mindful of how you share so that the focus remains on the deceased.

How to start a eulogy example:

Good morning/Good afternoon. I’m Mike and I’m Angie’s oldest son.

Good morning/Good afternoon. I’m Lisa and I’ve been best friends with Cedric ever since he moved in to the neighborhood 10 years ago.

3. THANK THE AUDIENCE

Whether there is one person or 200 people in attendance, be sure to thank the audience.

After all, it can be emotionally taxing to attend a memorial or funeral. Yet, the audience members have done so. Express appreciation for that and any other support. You can do this at the start of the eulogy or at the end (or both).

How to start a eulogy example:

Good morning/Good afternoon. First, I’d like to express our deepest gratitude for your presence and support as we celebrate Ana’s life today.

BONUS TIP:

Start the eulogy by using a short story and/or a quote to get the audience members' attention right away.

How to start a eulogy example:

Good morning/Good afternoon. (3 second PAUSE)“The only thing we can’t lose is hope.” This is what my mom would say to all of us any time we were struggling. So I won’t lose my hope that one day we will meet again.

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Wishing you comfort.